There Are “magical People ” Around Us On All Sides

There are “magical” people who surround us from all sides.

These are the ones with which we discover happiness, those which help us to fly, to shine and to unload our backpack. They are people with whom you share complicity and stability.

Sometimes you don’t have to say “I’m by your side” because words are useless. We hook up with someone and all of a sudden we let ourselves be carried away by the melody of friendship or love.

It is a healthy bond, crystal clear, and open to experience. Friendship is one of those sincere looks that lighten the weight and help us get rid of the obstacles that come before us.

“There are magical people. I promise you, I saw them. They are found hidden in every corner of the planet, disguised as normal people, concealing their way of being so special. They want to behave like the others. ”

That’s why sometimes it’s so hard to find them. But when we discover them, there is no going back.

You cannot let go of this memory. Don’t tell anyone, but they say their magic is so strong that if it hits you once, it stays forever ”

True friends can be counted on the fingers of one hand

True friends can be counted on the fingers of one hand. It is a great truth that no one can deny.

This is natural because we cannot have the same expectations, feelings, emotions, thoughts and hobbies as everyone else who comes into our life.

There are people with whom we connect in a special way and to whom experiences connect us.

We use it to nurture one of the most important aspects of your life: the social. As Aristotle says, we are social animals and therefore we need these unions to feel complete.

“Magical people” are those who have great social and emotional qualities, those who provide support, who save us and who guide us.

In other words, those with social intelligence, the closest sister to emotional intelligence.

Social intelligence and its two main ingredients

Social intelligence is defined as the ability of people to bond.

According to Daniel Goleman, it has two ingredients:

• Social awareness : it is the ability to be sensitive to the inner state of the other person, to perceive non-verbal emotional signals and to understand their feelings, thoughts and intentions. It is therefore about:
  • Harmonize and really listen.
  • Give the other person room to say what they want to say.
  • Provide the opportunity for the conversation to take a favorable course for everyone.
  • For this, it is essential to have a true knowledge of how it works at the social level because without it we could not decode the revealed social signals.
• Social aptitude: This is the skill that allows us to build good relationships and bond with the needs of others. That is to say that in addition to being socially aware, we must know how to build fluid and effective exchanges.
  For that you need :
  • Learn to introduce yourself.
  • Caring about the needs of others and acting on them.

In summary, social intelligence is not just about taking time to listen, but about harmonizing deeply with the feelings of others and bringing more intimate contact to life.

The “magical people” are social and emotional intelligent people, giving them a status, a gift of expressiveness that draws others.

So, as we say, there are relationships that forge and stimulate the possibility of sharing what moves us.

These unions hold us on to life, encourage us to be better beings and to unblock the dark areas that darken our soul.

Even though it may be remote, social and emotional intelligence is something that is right at your fingertips.

This is why we should not rule out the possibility of meeting magical people today and especially of spreading your own magic for someone. 

Illustrations by Kristina Webb and Anne Soline