The Gift Of The Right People Is In The Little Details

Little details build lifetimes. There are those who do not perceive it and who are not able to see the efforts that others make to make their life easier, to bring light on the darkest days and to untie the knots of their ball. of life.

Good people don’t carry signs and aren’t used to talking too much about themselves, because sometimes they make the mistake of neglecting themselves a bit and paying too much attention to the needs of those around them. It is their essence and their way of seeing the world.

It is often said that the right people are the ones who bring us genuine happiness. On the other hand, the most complicated people who play a double game are those who make us regret and who offer us experiences. Believe it or not, both are essential in life.

How many good people do you have around you? Chance wanted them to be part of your daily life, and that they enrich you with their words and their subtle humility which does not know selfishness. 

However, you too can be one of those people used to bringing light to others, who desire the happiness of their own more than anything, taking care of the smallest detail of every situation.

Seek to draw smiles on familiar faces, and no… Don’t ask for anything in return, for that is your nature and the way you see life.

Big hearts can be recognized in the small details

It is possible that when you least expect it, someone surprises you by doing you a favor that you did not expect, or that they are worried about you in a way so sincere that you feel like they are. will feel surprised.

Sometimes human kindness leaves us speechless. We cannot do anything other than to be moved by the actions of anonymous people who, without carrying wings on their backs, bring stardust in the eyes of their pockets to embellish and illuminate our paths …

It is often said that the best tribute you can do to good people is to emulate them. By now you will surely agree that we cannot all do it.

Not everyone, of course, can practice human kindness. So the real question about this is: Are good people born this way or are they made?

• In neuroscience, there are many voices that defend the human being’s innate tendency to kindness. It would be something rooted in our biology and which would confirm the idea of ​​positive psychology.
• Early experiences, styles of education, social and educational background, and past experiences may cause this natural tendency to vary depending.
• The very act of giving, offering, helping and satisfying should be an act capable of offering happiness and inner balance. However, there are not many successful people in acquiring this ability.
  

The art of kindness as an exercise in empathy

Good people are not even aware of their ability to empathize with their loved ones.

They feel the pains of the world and internalize them as theirs, hence the interest in seeking this external balance every day to feel good with themselves.

Their kindness is selfless and is exercised without expecting anything in return. For these people, time does not exist, their priorities are offered and distances do not exist.

Where humility is, details matter

Who is born with a humble heart knows the greatness behind the details. He knows that a gesture, a caress, and words of encouragement brings more than any material object.

Do not pile things up, do not fall in love with the material. Surround yourself with good people who make your world magical, and if you don’t meet one, become one!

Good people can get bored of being too

Indeed, if throughout your life you have practiced the art of opening your heart towards others and you have only worried about the happiness of those around you, it is possible that ‘at one point you reached saturation point.

The limit inevitably comes because good people cannot give a lifetime and never receive anything. They also need to be recognized. Why ?

• Who is not recognized is not valued.
• Whoever is not valued sinks into the abyss of “non-existence”. 
• Sometimes others can get used to your good deeds, they take them for granted, and demands become demands. 
• Whoever does not find value for his efforts will end up unraveling like a fabric that can no longer give anything. It doesn’t matter how strong or beautiful it is, because good people can also end up breaking down.
  

Don’t allow that. Take care of the good people around you as your most precious possessions.

Take care of yourself, without hesitating to set limits and without believing that if you say “no” or “enough”, you stop being a good person.