Being Tall Is Not A Question Of Height, But Of Attitude

Of all that is yours, your way of thinking is the most important.

It is she who will give you the best shoes to avoid the stones in the path, who will allow you to jump obstacles and make you strong.

Because a good attitude is the force that makes us persist, resist and triumph.

Our attitude is the inner energy that moves more thoughts than an entire army.

It cannot see itself, nor find itself, but it does not spread in our responses, in our way of facing daily life, however dark it may be.

My attitude is defined in such a way that if you take me to the edge of the abyss to bring me down, you will realize that there is no fragility in me that will rush me, that my heart is as strong as open and that I no longer want to be the source of unnecessary battles.

Our attitude does not appear from evening to morning. In reality, life draws it through different processes.

It forms ways of thinking, of valuing things, which allow us to establish priorities, the most adapted to our personality.

It is essential not to surrender, not to see everything in black on a clear day, to face life with resilience, balance and thirst for going beyond.

It is not just a question of being optimistic but of maintaining an objective realism where we know how to take advantage of ourselves.

The one that takes up the most space is not the largest. The greatest is the one who leaves a void when he leaves.

It is forged day by day, with a good attitude that makes us and others happy.

My attitude is my armor, and a garden that never fades

There are attitudes for all tastes and colors, and even for every moment of the day.

We are sure that you too know someone who is constantly changing: at times he is combative and a few minutes later defeatism invades him and he could almost pass it on to us.

There are two dimensions that make people suffer: the first is our patience when things don’t go as planned, when we have nothing in life.

The second is the same attitude to it, but when we have everything in life.

You may think that our attitudes and our personality are the same.

They are linked, of course, but attitudes are always the order of the day, they make us accept or reject something.

They are what allow us to accept or go beyond the everyday, or who turn us off and make us fall into the most defeatist behaviors.

• Attitudes are defined by cognitive, affective and behavioral components.
  These are the processes that we will internalize throughout our lives and our experiences, until we define ourselves and our choices.

• A distrustful attitude, based on precaution, which is afraid of the consequences and in the constant memory of the mistakes or bad experiences of the past, makes that one will live a very closed reality and based on self-protection.

• Conversely, people who have integrated their past well, with resilience, and who see life as a continuous opportunity, will have a more open and favorable attitude.

It is often said that attitudes are not skills, and that in reality they are pillars that lift us up, from which we can see the world in all its glory. This is where dreams come true …

We also know that it is not always easy to “watch” what is big, when we have this problem, this worry.

In fact, it’s always good to look a little beyond. Look into the distance and adopt an attitude of struggle and strength.

Don’t let your positive attitudes fade into the chaotic buzz of life. 

Unearth your best attitudes and carry them with you every day of your life

There are days when we can’t take it anymore. Even though we wish to see this ray of light, we only see fog.

And even worse, sometimes, when the people around us reinforce this state of lack of confidence, of defense. What to do then?

Today, I decide to be courageous and to advance towards the light, the hope. You are free to do what you want, you are the master of your attitudes but mine push me to believe in myself again.

Like we said, it’s not easy to suddenly envelop yourself in this weird positivity like deciding to take a magic wand to solve a problem.

Happiness does not know rituals or spells, but attitudes do:

• Attitudes are psychological constructs that can reorient, change, and focus towards a goal. For that, we have to believe that we deserve to be even better, and happy again.

• Change your thoughts and you change your attitude to transform your reality. After thoughts come emotion, then motivation and finally the search for a goal.

• Know that sometimes the people around us can condition many of our attitudes.
  Keep an appropriate distance between yourself and the people who impair your personal development and dare to take a lighter path, a freer path. 

Search within yourself, listen to yourself, speak to yourself and understand that all your qualities are hidden in your interior: dare to bring them out, let emerge this resistant attitude which allows you to be the sole master of your dreams, for them. share with the people you love.