5 Signs To Know If You Have A Good Relationship

Have you ever wondered if you were having a good relationship with your current couple?

I do not hide from you that this uncertainty has occupied my mind for several weeks, and therefore led me to ask myself questions such as: “  Are other people in the same situation as me? Is it just normal in the daily life of a relationship to ask these questions? “

Most of us know that it is not always easy to maintain a relationship, but having doubts about whether we are having a good relationship or not is a point that we rarely wonder about.

After feeling this uncertainty personally, I decided to look for these signs that can tell us whether we are in a correct relationship or not .

The presence of these signs can allow us to open our eyes and / or duplicate our desire to continue walking the path with our current spouse.

What are the signs that show us that we are living a correct relationship?

Each couple relationship is unique. Those who compose it are people with their own characteristics and with different tastes.

Some time ago, I discovered that the secret to living and growing with the loved one is to learn to understand, respect and know how to deal with their differences,  to convert them into a real strength for the relationship.

These are points that remain pending for many of us, as we make plans together, work as a team, or learn to tolerate.

There is no such thing as fear. The Achilles heel in any type of relationship is fear. Fear gives us a sign of security when we are in a relationship because if we are in a correct relationship, we shouldn’t feel fear coming from the other person. In this case, it is normal to feel emotions that are totally opposite to fear, such as security, joy and stability.

In an incorrect relationship, the opposite happens: Feelings of insecurity and fears invade us.

Being in a relationship in which you constantly doubt your spouse means that you are in a broken relationship, or at least one that requires a number of profound changes.

Genuine trust. This sign becomes the key pillar of the correct relationship: trust.

The sensation that occurs when she settles between two people who love each other is indescribable.

It should exist between the two people long before starting the relationship, because in order to enjoy an experience full of trust, it is necessary to gain it long before starting any commitment.

Why maintain a relationship in which we are suffering and experiencing the opposite of love?

By asking myself this question, I have stopped reproducing this harmful emotional environment until today. And I touch wood at the bottom of my heart!

He / She sacrifices himself for you. On this point, I am not talking to you in any way of a type of extreme or vital sacrifice, but rather of these small daily sacrifices, such as for example making a plan of life together where the needs of both people can be met and respected. We are talking about existing habits between the two people.

Love is knowing how to share and give the best of yourself, hoping for the well-being of others. If you don’t think there are small details within your commitment, you are not in a correct relationship.

You maintain your own identity. We have already shared with you the ease with which emotional dependence can arise in a couple, becoming a sign of an incorrect relationship.

Just because you share your own heart with someone doesn’t mean we have to lose our identity.

A great relationship is born when we learn to maintain individuality and respect between the two members of the relationship, without any losing their soul,  or ceasing to practice their passions, and to see their friends or family.

If you respect your differences as human beings, I will be happy to tell you that you are in a good relationship then!

Confrontations can be positive. I’m going to tell you another secret of correct relationships: arguments, as passionate as they are, always retain an essential ingredient, mutual respect.

If you experience this type of confrontation, the end will always be positive with great solutions for both parties.

On the other hand, if there are dramatic, negative and toxic discussions in your relationship, I would like to invite you to stop for a moment and think about whether you really deserve to go through this situation.

You are probably in an incorrect relationship, where feelings are not letting your sanity work out.